Thank you to our freelance contributor Cynthia Milo for writing this amazing article for us……
A woman’s life is characterised by many milestones, and getting married and having a baby are two of the most important.
If you find yourself experiencing the two at the same time, it does not mean that you cannot have the dream wedding that you imagined years ago.
Though it can be challenging, planning, shopping, and executing while minding the wellness of the baby is possible.
Here are some tips to help you get through the whole process.
Choosing your wedding dress…
The biggest thing to consider when getting married while pregnant is your wedding dress.
While most brides focus on the feel and fit of their gown, an expectant bride should have some particular specifications.
The first thing to put in mind is the sizing, considering how far you will be at the date of the wedding.
Note that a few months can make a notable difference when it comes to your baby’s growth.
You should make a decision depending on whether you want to conceal or flaunt the growing belly.
Additionally, women should measure their bust and then add one inch for each month of pregnancy up to the time of the wedding.
It is also wise to push your dress selection process as close to the wedding as possible.
Delegating and hiring help
You have bridesmaids, a maid of honor, family and a bridal party for a reason.
As such, you should figure out what everyone’s strength is and utilise it.
Even if you are a natural perfectionist, give them the specifics of what you want everything to look like.
Also, don’t hold back any questions or clarifications if you need any, but avoid micromanaging them.
Hiring coordinators is also a great step as they will help organise and execute everything.
While looking for the right team to hire, ask for recommendations from friends and do your own research.
The idea is to hire a team that you can trust to put together all plans including managing all vendors and all the other fine details.
The pleasure of starting a new life both physically and metaphorically is the most satisfying thing about being an expectant bride.
It is a unique experience and one that you, your partner and friends will treasure for years to come.
When planning, ensure that you sort the most important things first.
These include the wedding dress, the cake and the comfortability of your guests.
If, in the process, you find it overwhelming to come up with a huge wedding, keep it simple, memorable and meaningful.
Remember that the price for adding more details to the wedding is extra stress for you and your unborn baby.